Facebook is a good match for FriendFeed, insofar as I’ve never understood why I’d want to use either of them.
– John Gruber, on Facebook’s acquisition of FriendFeed
Knowing that Gruber is a big Twitter user, the implied ending to that sentence is surely, “… instead of Twitter.” I understand the sentiment. I’ve been using Facebook for about seven months now after a long holdout, and I still don’t quite know what to do with it. Unlike Gruber, I can see why people use it: it’s a whole online ecosystem, a one-stop shop for people to communicate and waste time online. Nevertheless, I still prefer Twitter, which I’v been using for over a year longer. I can point to three reasons why:
- As a seasoned internet nerd, I had already filled all those needs that Facebook fills for most people. I had a blog for writing, Twitter for status updates, Flickr for photos, etc. Facebook strikes me as the place where people who don’t want to bother juggling all those accounts go to set up shop online. As time goes by and Facebook becomes the only social media some people ever use this will be less so, and people like me will sound like those old boys talking about their punch card computers and programming in COBOL. For now though, I’m willing to bet Twitter skews heavily toward long-time internet creators.
- Twitter is made for my iPhone. Honestly, that could be the only reason. It’s the perfect application for a smartphone, which makes sense for a service originally intended for text messaging only. Facebook, on the other hand, is a mess in mobile form. There’s just too much there. It’s not fair to try shoehorning all of its features into an iPhone app, but it probably never will achieve the kind of device independence of Twitter, by its very definition.
- And finally, there’s no nice way to say this, but the people I follow on Twitter are just more fun than my Facebook contacts. This is definitely a result of #1: people who adopted Twitter early, before the Great Oprah/Ashton/Anderson Cooper influx, are most likely internet pros who know how to carry a tune online, so to speak. They’re in it to express opinions, share links, make jokes and entertain, whereas most people I see on Facebook are quite content posting goopy love messages to their spouses and posting pictures of their kids. If that’s what you want, more power to you, I’m just not as likely to spend my spare time reading about it.
Here is the best analogy I can come up with for the way I think of Facebook and Twitter. Facebook is like family. You don’t choose them, but if you want to have a semi-normal life you have to put up with them. Facebook has achieved this kind of necessary evil status. You pretty much have to join these days to stay in the loop, even if it means seeing what some random high school classmate scored on Bejeweled Blitz (the social network equivalent of listening to your brother-in-law talk about his fantasy football team). Twitter on the other hand, is like friends and colleagues. You get to pick who you hang out with, mostly later in life, based on shared interests and experiences. You like talking to them and sharing inside jokes. You prefer hanging out with them most of the time, but you still have to check in with the family every now and then.
Granted, this view stems from the fact that a vast majority of my Facebook contacts are my actual family and people I knew growing up. I want to keep in touch with them, sure, but the people I’ve met more recently, i.e. the ones I follow on Twitter, are more relevant to my daily life. This may just be my own special use case and irrelevant to the increasing number of people who funnel every acquaintance into Facebook, but I’m guessing there are more people out there with similar experiences.
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